If someone can’t handle it on the other end, they can be assertive enough and tell me. I would immediately send a text and voicemail that we lost connection let’s talk soon. :[ It really pis*ses me off. Answering clients 2 or 3 days later is absolutely unacceptable. Anyway, it’s not about you. I am from Australia so maybe it is different to different countries. A lot of guys send similar messages that don’t stand stand out. I just thought of: 7. Could you contact me as soon as you have time? I think to an extent, we do have a right to take it a little personally, just because it has become a form of communication, and it deserves the same respect. Required fields are marked *. They don’t know your struggle unless you put yourself out there. We’re all busy and taking the time to send a quick text, even if it says “super busy, text u later” is better than blowing people off. More often then not you will get a response right away. My job requires me to be “on call” 24/7 with one weekend off per month. Wishing you massive success with your site (start it today)! Than I am just thinking do I really wanna give this person a reason to feed their ego? Nor should I be. Maybe she is jealous too. Totally man. Texting is a different story, cause well, there isn’t any body language to observe. I find if someone really wants to talk to you practically nothing stands in the way. They can’t be worth much of a friend anyway. I can put away 1 minute of my life to respond to a text. If we have to make a call, we’re only allowed to use a land line. Get over yourselves. It’s okay to take time to respond back but if they don’t reply for over a year it just shows where and what they think about you. What do i do? The world doesn’t have to revolve around me for me to get a response even once in a while. I think you bring up a great point Zeta. But perhaps it isn't normal to be at each other's beck and call 24 hours a day. I don’t want to be on anyone’s electronic leash of” where are you, helloooooo, wyd, hru… “.      to reach their heart, you’ll need a plan. amzn_assoc_region = "US"; I believe that it is a medium like any other. If you haven't seen the 1998 romantic comedy You've Got Mail, you really should. I counter that it’s about being in the present and paying respect to the people in front of you. We’ll give you plenty of tips and ideas That is a great idea Jason. If I am busy say… just driving (illegal to txt and drive btw) your txt can wait until I am finished. Is she truly my best friend…? How about., “YOU are lazy because you can’t be bothered calling me to actually talk to me, or for long-distance communication and non-urgent things, to write a letter (remember those??? If he doesn’t answer the phone, try calling him another time and then send a second text telling him how important it is for you to be there and that you would really like to come. BORED. I state it upfront to alleviate any confusion, but some guys will do it anyways amd try to bombard my phone with text at all hours. I don’t. You certainly weren’t born before the era of cell phones. It was more to save my ego and sanity at that point. their messages are the same all about money for me to give. What do you exactly mean by bad reputation btw. Well, you’ve come to the right place! As simple as that. The overtexter, someone that texts you every detail of what’s going on with them, like full blown journal entries. Being busy is the lamest excuse in the world because I am as busy as anyone else…7 days a week and I still manage to check my phone and answer people. – They are actually doing something productive such as working, studying, exercising, visiting old people, etc. The keys to unleash your creativity. Why waste your time pursuing someone that is clearly too busy or not willing to put the effort into communicating with you? 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